Hey everyone, remember that classic Jim Carrey movie, The Mask? You might be wondering why I’m bringing it up. Well, there’s a reason, and it’s more than just a throwback to a fun film.
Here’s the thing: Just like in the movie, we all wear masks in real life to hide our true selves. It sounds a bit dramatic, but stick with me.
For 41 years, I’ve been wearing these metaphorical masks, thinking they were just part of who I am. They weren’t; they were disguises. I had masks of shame, guilt, fear, and all sorts of other stuff—things I thought were my real identity.
At first, these masks made life seem okay. I could blend in, fit in, and get by. But eventually, it hit me: I wasn’t these masks. They were just layers covering up who I truly am. I was like a black sheep in a flock of white ones, desperately trying to blend in. I wanted approval, acceptance, and to feel like I belonged.
But no matter what I did, I was always seen as different, as the black sheep. It was exhausting. I felt beaten down by everyone’s expectations and judgments. I chased after a false sense of happiness, something that was never meant for me, never real. These masks were stifling my true self, making me feel like I wasn’t enough.
It took away my joy, my confidence, and my faith in myself. One day, I decided enough was enough. I was done hiding behind these masks. I chose to reveal my true self, no matter how others might react.
Curious about what happened next? Stick around and dive into my story! Click here to read Revealing the Real: A Journey Beyond the Masks (Part-2).